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forgive me to write in Chinese.
有没有孩子并不是什么人生大事。只要双方同意不要孩子，
看看很多老人包括我父母亲。这么老了七十岁，爸还要工作，
我哥哥们叫他们搬来KL和我们一起住，他们总是有很多借口。
这样一来，
我也很想每个星期回家看看他们，
以前每次回家都有给妈妈钱，尤其是拿花红时给钱更加不手软！
现在，我不再给父母钱了，因为他们希望我先还清债务！所以，
这就是我现在发生的故事了，和你们分享！
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On Sat, Jul 11, 2009 at 1:13 PM, Prudence Choong wrote:
Hello Michelle and all,
You dun need to admired me has been to many countries, because tis is my ambition!!! I dun know why I like to travel, maybe backpacking to many country really inspired me a lot in my life, expecially for my age now, i can handle any problem easily than when I were young, at least I know how to settle problem when it happen in my trip even by myself.
Second also I earn US dollars, more easy for me to travel. Third is I have US greencard, so I have no problems to apply visa to some country (Malaysian need to prove income tax etc).
Backpacking is kind of learning for life, when I been to poor country, I see how difficult they are, and I also been to that situation before, because my family were very poor when I were kid. So im very appreciate of what I have now, and will very treasure it too. And when I been to advance country, i learn how come they can be so advance. If country like Toronto, i learn what is call relax for their life.
let me tell you something, I been to US already close to 9 years. Before I get my greencard, my mother she always pray for me hope I have someone can take care of me, also hope to see me as soon as well, because already 6 1/2 years she didint see before she pass away. Finally I got my greencard even a bit delay, but she were so happy, and I thought finally I can back home to see her. That time I plan end of July 2007 back to KL, but in began of July she suddenly fever and stay in hospital, and then she never come out.. I rushed back to see her but she already in ICU, i dun know she really know Im back to her site already or not, because she were so weak that moment. After 1 1/2 months then she gone, she cant spend anytime with me even talking to me. It was 6 1/2 years she been waiting, but finally she still cant spend time with me, what I only can do is everyday go to the hospital to see her, only see her suffer. Why god dun give us some more moment, at least let her see my hubby in person, at least let her attend my wedding, but she dun get tis chance. When I got my greencard in end of May 2007, and I plan to back to KL in end of July, but only two months, in tis two months my whole life were changed. Im so so regret, I should back home immediately after I got my greencard, but you never know.... dun know what should I blame, Im only can say tis is one of the big regret in rest of my life. I cant chase back and I cant do anything at all....
Tis is my story to tell you, you will never know what will happen next, when u still have chance, just do what u would like to do, dun think too much. Be frank, we already 36 years old, if you married, will u plan to have kids? i mean I dun say u cant have kids even in tis ages, just a bit late to have kids for what I think, besides your finance have no problem at all, that's why i dun plan to have kids. First reason is finance...cant estimated at all. Second is too much time to take care. Maybe I admit im selfish, because I prefer to enjoy my life. What I want to tell is take sometime to do what you like to you in ur life, dun always give yourself an excuses, time wont wait for you, u will never know...never!!!
Tis is my story to tell today..... You all take care and thank you for listen to my my story.
Prudence
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